Gay man wolf

For gay men, the term cub is used to describe a younger (or younger looking) male, usually husky or heavier in body type and almost always hairy.

Characteristically, a bear would be a gay man that is somewhat large and usually heavy but can be muscular. Sugar twunk, for example, to describe effeminate twunks.

A pup typically is a gay male who is fairly young in age, usually late teens to early 20s, give or take.

If this is the case, there is always the “average” category, which is an area that many men gay men fall into. Gay wolves inhabit spaces that resonate with their kindred spirits, such as bear, otter, leather, and kink communities.

Some bears are so caught up in projecting a masculine image that they shun other would be bears who they feel come off as effeminate.

Originating from the bear subculture in the late 1970s, wolves emerged as a result of cultural evolution. We armour up. Average means the person is typically “average” in most areas, including body weight, height and hairiness. When you’re around people who “get it,” you feel seen, mirrored, and safe to show up more fully.

This is why finding or creating a conscious gay men’s community can be life-changing.

But safety and connection don’t have to be opposites anymore.

You deserve love, friendship, and belonging that feel nourishing, not depleting.
Let the lone wolf peek out of the den and join the pack, even just a little.

Because the truth is:

Most times, it’s worth risking rejection for authentic connection.
It’s so worth it.
And so are you.

Wolves.Gay is an anthology zine edited by Dobes Crusher. 

The zine's aim is simple- to explore lgbtq experiences in an open-ended manner themed around wolves.

The moment you start loving the parts of you that once felt unlovable, you open yourself up to love from others too.

Connection begins inside.

Healing Happens in Relationships

This is the hardest part for many gay men.

Unveiling the Allure of Gay Wolves: A Closer Look at the Apex Predators of LGBTQ Desire

In the realm of the LGBTQ community, gay wolves emerge as a unique and captivating subculture.

Cubs can sometimes be considered an apprentice to a bear.

A great video to stream or download is The Adonis Factor, a documentary that goes into fairly strong detail on gay body types. Every time I was teased, rejected, or made fun of, I internalized the message that being my authentic self was not safe.

So, I built a mask.

Gym bunnies and Gym Rats are closely related. Wolves have a history in a variety of cultures that is as rich and complex and storied as our queer histories, so the meeting of the two just feels right.

This anthology contains short stories, essays, poetry, illustrations and comics all themed on lgbtq wolves.