New York, in late 2002, passed a discrimination protection for LGB people and was the first of its kind to include provisions for asexual people in defining sexual orientation as "heterosexuality, homosexuality, bisexuality, or asexuality, whether actual or perceived.".
Minors and adults have to get a gender diagnosis before being treated and or have been treated by a medical professional. This meant that while legally married in New York, they were denied federal benefits, such as Social Security survivor benefits or joint tax filing.
Federal recognition changed with the Supreme Court’s decision in United States v.
The first marriage ceremonies for same-sex couples were performed shortly after midnight.
The Marriage Equality Act
The New York State Legislature passed the Marriage Equality Act on June 24, 2011. Governor Andrew Cuomo signed the bill into law on the same day, establishing the legal right for same-sex couples to marry within the state.

Following Windsor, marriages validly performed in New York were recognized by the federal government, allowing New York’s same-sex married couples to access over 1,000 federal rights and benefits. The act, known as SONDA, became effective in January of 2003. This legislation amended the Domestic Relations Law to replace gender-specific terms like “husband” and “wife” with gender-neutral language such as “spouses” and “parties to a marriage.” The Act codified that a marriage contract “may be entered into by a couple of the same or different sex,” ensuring equal access to marriage for all New Yorkers.
The law also included provisions to protect religious organizations and benevolent associations from being compelled to solemnize or provide services for same-sex marriages if doing so would violate their religious beliefs.
This ruling struck down Section 3 of DOMA, which had denied federal recognition to legally performed same-sex marriages. And in 2009, then-Governor David Paterson issued an executive order prohibiting discrimination in state employment on the basis of gender identity.